Judgement: Softening What’s Rigid In Your Heart

Judgement

Reading these words really hit home for me…

‘If we want there to be peace in the world, we have to be brave enough to soften what is rigid in our hearts, to find the soft spot and stay with it. We have to have that kind of courage and take that kind of responsibility. That’s the true practice of peace.’

To me this is a classic Judgement quote. Because the ultimate judgement is to be compassionate. To forgive others. To forgive yourself. To soften what’s rigid in your heart. Only when you do that can you reach the ultimate Tarot card: The World.

The quote comes from Pema Chodron who is a Buddhist teacher, author, nun and mother. She has inspired millions around the world with her message of peace. You can find her at http://www.pemachodronfoundation.org.

The Lovers 21st Century Style

The Lovers

I clicked on an article today at The Huffington Post (an online news media) titled ‘Nearly 20 Percent Of Young Adults Admit To Doing This During Sex’. Thinking: ‘What are those young people up to now? Don’t tell me that as well as being more functional than my generation (X) they’re also having better sex!’ I imagined I was going to learn they’re all giving each other head (which I’ve heard they are) whereas in my day that pleasure only flowed in one direction and I was prepared to be very jealous of the women of Generation Y. But instead here’s what I read…

Nearly 20 percent of young adults between the ages of 18 and 34 use their smartphones during sex.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. The jokes on me. Ah, the choices we make, even when getting intimate with the ones we love.

Do you use your smartphone during sex?

The High Priestess: Secret Keeper

My WordPress host keeps throwing quotes at me too good not to comment on. Today’s thought is: ‘Writing is a struggle against silence.’ Carlos Fuentes (A writer obviously!)

Puts me in mind of this card…

The High PriestessThe High Priestess: It’s a writer’s job to reveal the secrets she keeps. The mysteries of life. But the High Priestess herself ain’t talking. The writer has to dig them out for him or herself!

The Fool Courtesy Of Stephen King

The Fool

‘The scariest moment is always just before you start.’ Stephen King.

The Fool. Patron saint of all new enterprises. Publishing your first post on a blog. Starting at a new school. Getting ready to jump out of a plane. Psyching yourself up to ask a question or make a comment at a meeting. Feeling your dad let go of your bike after you’ve just given up your training wheels. Pulling out a credit card to place an order for a set of window shutters to the tune of $2000 (that was me yesterday and hell yeah it was scary, that’s a looooot of money).

But these things are exciting too, yeah?

The Magician: Wendy Davis And Her Hot Pink Running Shoes

The Magician

A week or so ago US Democratic senator Wendy Davis stood in Texas state parliament and spoke for thirteen hours non-stop – THIRTEEN HOURS – in order to prevent an anti-abortion measure becoming law. Whatever you think of her politics that was an impressive feat. Bizarrely, one of the most commented on aspects of her performance was Continue reading